Having confidence simply means to have faith in oneself, strongly believe in one’s ability. But the fact is, humans are never perfect, we lack of confidence in something simply because we are unsure, and having uncertainty will result in a sense of lacking of confidence, as it is not built with strong, solid, concrete faith.

Have you ever wanted to know the ways in building confidence? Why are some people having so much confidence in themselves, the way they talk, the way they walk, the way they speak? Now this article is going to show you how to break into the code of gaining self confidence, through a 4 steps process.

1. Ask and write down

Just think about this question, be truthful to yourself, and write the answers down.
What are the areas that you would like to start building confidence in?

It can be anything, such as lack of confidence in speaking in public, and such, just make sure you put it down on paper, on your computer or anywhere that is accessible to you and you get to see it everyday.

2. Focus on one at a time
Now all those points that you have written down, are all the things that you would want to get rid of, or improve on. The next thing that you need to do is to stay focus, pick one of the critical points that you want to start with, from the list that you have written down previously.

It is important to stay focus on one point at a time. Make sure you do not ever go to the next point if you have not successfully show improvement on the point that you picked.

3. Look for a “Model”

Yes a model, a model of success, a model of confidence. Think about someone who is confident and act, talk and walk like him or her. You need to model their mannerisms and behavior. That is simply because if it works for them; it will work for you.

For example, if you want to build confidence in public speaking, look for a model that has done it successfully. I would simply just use Anthony Robbins as my model, but of course, you can think of others of your preference to model like him or her.

As much as you would know, Anthony Robbins is a master in motivation, the way he speaks and thinks, has presented his confidence, which is what I would like to model about. So, I will go and get whatever information that is available about him, his videos, his audios, his books, and watch, learn and pick up the points that you would like to model.

If you would like to read on about how to model a successful person you can read about my 6 Steps to Success Duplication.

4. Observe, Practice and Perfect
Now if you have come to this far, you have already shown very much determination in building self confidence. In order to be successful, you will need to continuously observe your model and practice on your own, and lastly perfecting to success.

The time and effort that you are going to put in, will depend on how determine you are to improve on yourself. If you are able to go through the cycle for your other points, you are going see the difference in yourself.

If you need to know how exactly to model a successful person, you can take a look at my 6 Steps to Success Duplication.

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